Hi Women.

I've been kinda busy and not in the mood to write anything lately (that doesn't seem unfamiliar, does it). But hey, Kartini Day! Though mostly I don't give a fuck about this day (let's be honest, nobody celebrate it outside facebook or maybe smses), at least I wanna say: Happy Kartini Day!.... in my blog.

I do believe that men and women should be more equal. Sure, women don't have a penis and men don't have boobs (some men DO have boobs, but that's for another story), but other than those sex tools, and one more other thing I'll tell you in the next paragraph, we are basically the same.

The only other thing which we are different is the way we look at other people on the opposite gender. But it's too complicated for me to explain with my lack of ability to create good structured English, and I have no time for this. Let's just say that the way men look at women and the way women look at men is very different. Read The Mating Mind by Geoffrey Miller by the way, he will tell you many things (just.. torrent it or something).

Final words, to all women out there, read this sarcastic lyrics by The Panas Dalam below, and be grateful that you were born as a woman:)

Cita-citaku, ingin menjadi polwan
mana mungkin aku hanya lelaki
oh Tuhan, tolong hamba-Mu
aku tak sudi jadi bapak polwan

Cita-citaku, ingin jadi Bu Ahmad
mana mungkin aku hanya lelaki
oh ibu, jangan paksa aku
aku tak sudi jadi Bapak Ahmad..
 

Reff:
Sedih.......Hatiku sedih
terlahir sebagai seorang lelaki
oh Tuhan, tolong hamba-Mu
terlahir sebagai seorang lelaki
oh ibu, jangan paksa aku
ini bukan jaman Siti Nurbaya
Lagi....

Seandainya aku boleh memilih

sebelum dilahirkan
Betapa enak menjadi perempuan
hanya membuka aurat
lelaki bekerja keras untuk mendapatkannya

Cita-citaku, ingin menjadi tomboy
mana mungkin aku hanya lelaki
oh tuhan, tolong hamba-Mu
aku tak sudi jadi lelaki tomboy

Cita-citaku, ingin jadi lesbian
mana mungkin aku hanya lelaki
oh ibu, jangan paksa aku
aku tak sudi menjadi homosex...

Reff:
Sedih, hatiku sedih
terlahir sebagai seorang lelaki
oh Tuhan, tolong hamba-Mu
terlahir sebagai seorang lelaki
oh ibu, jangan paksa aku
ini bukan jaman Siti Nurbaya
Lagi....

(The Panas Dalam - Cita-citaku | Lyrics by Pidi Baiq)